Saturday, March 20, 2010

Get used to it..

In my life, I have encountered situations with which I was not  comfortable.. They were against my principles and the decisions circled around those situations were wrong and based on faulty assumptions. Unfortunately I had no control on those decisions and they were just inflicted on me.  Decisions that would turn out to be loss for many. If it had been my way of doing things,  I would have reacted in a arguable  with the decision makers. I would have picked up an argument and struck to it. I would have tried to convince. I tried to analyse what could be best done in such cases.. When I talked to a  few good hearted, all came up with a statement "get used to it".  As long as things don't  concern you, it is not a fight you are expected to take up.. A thick skin to what others feel. a deaf ear to others' problem and heart frozen without sentiments... Just keep your eyes open and watch things as they happen.. I closed the episode saying "Get Used To It"..
A competitive world helps to bring the best in each. It brings out the best both in the winner and the loser. but an unethical and unhealthy competition is good for none. It produces results that are distorted, results that when incorporated makes things worse. The world views losers as people who have lost.. and thus people are forced to avoid losing and failing at all costs. They are forced to win every time and possibly the first time ., They are thus forced to take shortcuts, practice unethical means of doing things... Two things have to changes .. First the world  should view people who have lost as some one who have  not won this time around.. They will have their chance to win. It is a matter of time... and secondly people should not quit. One who quits is the one who.
We all need to think the bigger picture. We forget that the best skill in each should serve the society. At the end of the day, I know it is all about surviving, but then we are not so constrained that we cannot co-exist. The world is big but bigger is our ambition to be bigger than world. World belongs to the humanity as a whole. Competition should help one focus ones energy for the making a better world.